New Year's Resolutions are as American as apple pie and as expected as turkey on Thanksgiving. After all, It's a good time of year to renew ourselves and look for a fresh start. Statistically speaking, most of those resolutions don't even make it past January 31st... but let's be honest here. Do most of your resolutions even make it off the paper??
There's good reason for this, and resolution failure can be prevented with just a little planning:
1. Pick one thing:
What are the chances that you're going to both lose weight AND double your income in 2010? Sure, it's possible, but let's be a little more realistic. Keep it simple and pick an action item that you'd most like to change about yourself; one thing that nags you and brings down your self esteem. For the over-achievers out there, don't worry; once you've mastered THIS ONE THING, then you can move on!
2. Be specific:
Sixty-six percent of Americans are overweight, and most of those people will write "lose weight" on their 2010 resolutions list. How successful do you think they'll be? How successful have you been in the past? To be successful, evaluate where you are now and where you want to be. Then use numbers to evaluate your progress. If your goal is to lose weight, then use body fat percentage as you goal- this is specific and measurable.
3. Plan Action Steps:
Prevent failure by honing in on the most important component and makeTHAT your initial step. In the example of weight loss, choose the goal "Eat 80% raw, uncooked vegetables at every meal" or "walk 20 minutes over lunch hour". Improving just one area and making that a new habit will bring you closer to your goal than half-completing five or six steps. Once you've mastered the first step then move on to your next step until your specific goal is achieved.
4. Plan a start date:
Not January 1st, unless you must. Plan a date when you will be prepared and ready. If your goal is to get to the gym 5 days a week, make sure you have your membership and a specific time carved out of your schedule before your start date.
5. You will fail:
Nobody is perfect every day, all day long. Recognize that you will cheat, you will forget, you will fail. Pick yourself back up, don't berate yourself, and GET GOING AGAIN!
6. Motivate yourself:
Be your own motivational speaker... create a mantra for yourself that is encouraging and uplifting and assumes that you've
already reached your goal. "I AM 30% body fat" or, "I LOVE working out, it makes me feel so much better!" Images are a great motivator. Make your computer desktop wallpaper an image that reminds you of your goal. Tape a picture or magazine photograph on your bathroom mirror for reminder.
7. Reward yourself:
Pick rewards for yourself that will help you to stay motivated. Want new clothes? A trip you've been thinking about? Making positive changes in your life isn't about punishing or depriving yourself... it's about becoming a better, happier version of the already fabulous you!
GO FOR IT!